Hi Becky, thanks for inviting me to be part of the blog
today. I spend most of my time submerged in a financial geek day-job and escape
into stories – mine or one of the millions of authors whose stories I love – in
the evenings. I was born and raised in South Carolina, but moved to the Pacific
Northwest when my kids were in high school. They survived. J
About a year ago, we bought land in the mountains (to the
intense amusement of more than one of my friends, I’ve learned to drive a
tractor and do battle with the beavers over the height of the pond). It’s a
writer’s paradise though - weekends this winter included snow outside, a fire
inside and my trusty laptop.
Do you
consider yourself a shy and/or introverted person? In what ways has being
shy or introverted hindered your writing career? In what ways has being
shy or introverted helped your writing career?
I’m not sure if you’d call me an introvert (I do!) or just a
quiet person. After mumble, mumble years in consulting (and playing the
corporate-wifey role), my husband has a hard time believing that claim. He’s
seen my Chatty-Cathy mode.
With the day job, I’m doing two things: I’m listening to
what the client needs – introverts listen well – and I’m ‘selling’ a product or
solution to a known issue. With the corporate requirements, it really is a
role. Again, it’s listening to people who are more nervous than you are about
meeting the Boss’s Wife. Trust me, I’m not intimidating!
Once I started writing, I found it easy to network because
we were all excited about a common passion. People who don’t roll their eyes
when I talk about my story or struggle with a character arc or motivation or…
I’ll stop now.
The promo aspects of writing are another story. Whew, I had
to talk about my book and myself, instead of something tangible and separate
from my personal identity. Social media was like an introvert’s nightmare – a
giant cocktail party where you didn’t know a soul! I’m sllllooowwwlllyyyy
finding I enjoy Facebook and Twitter – the impromptu conversations can be a lot
of fun.
Tell me about a time that you had to step outside your comfort zone either in your writing career or in your personal life?
I went to Bouchercon (a huge mystery reader/author
conference) for the first time last fall and didn’t know a soul. On the plane,
I had a major case of ‘what am I doing?’ compounded by crossed wires (and a
dying cell phone) over where I supposed to meet my new roommate. I’d only
spoken with this woman on-line, but she and her friend graciously allowed me to
crash on the sofa in their suite. They both turned out to be wonderful people
who let me tag along to all the parties they were invited to. As soon as we
entered the room, though, I knew they needed to ‘do their thing.’ I peeled off
and acted as if I knew what I was doing. Rather than treating it like that
introvert’s nightmare, I simply walked up to a lost looking person and started
talking. And guess what – they were so happy someone broke the ice and talked
to them! I ended up working the room and met so many fantastic people. While
I’m terrible with names, I’d see them later in a session or the bar and it made
it easy to meet whoever they were talking to. Sometimes, it’s forgetting about
your own worries and just relaxing. Maybe that’s my ‘tip’ – focusing on the
other person makes it easier for me to forget I’m nervous.
Would you please share a short blurb of your book and where my readers can buy it?
Set in South Carolina, stopping the serial killer who is
terrorizing college campuses drives the plot of THE PROFESSOR. The tension and
stakes build as the characters’ wants and needs set them on a collision course: Charismatic State Agent Mick
O'Shaughnessy wants more from life than work and a pretty face. Fiercely
independent graduate student Meg Connelly always wanted a loving family and
professional success, but has to learn to trust in order to get either. The
Professor knows the only way to get what he wants is to take it—and taking
Meg’s life will destroy Mick with the same stroke of his knife.
Buy links:
Link to
B&N http://bit.ly/rQKCHpCarina http://bit.ly/AeUQWx
Good morning Rebecca! Thanks for inviting me to share a guest post.
ReplyDeleteYou are very welcome! It's nice to have you on. :)
ReplyDeleteMorning, Cathy!
ReplyDeleteI'm curious how you balance the day job with the writing. Are your kids grown and out of the house?
Oh, and I desperately want the land in the mountains (sans beavers :-)).
Kelsey
Corporate wife, beaver watcher, tractor driver, mountain cabin curtain maker, beach walker...and not last fabulous writer.
ReplyDeleteCathy, is there anything you don't do well. Curious minds must know.
Hmmm, Blogger won't let me reply directly to the messages today.
ReplyDeleteKelsey, my kids were in high school when I started writing so I know the push pull of day job, family and everything else in your life. I started running about that time, just so I could have 30 minutes all to myself :)
Now that they are out of the house, there is still the day job and the rest of your life, but it is a lot easier to carve out writing time. I worked on a scene before the day job this morning, but some days email is all I can handle until the caffeine kicks in.
Elizabeth, don't ask me to sing.
Ever.
Another torture device for introvert? Karaoke.
'nuf said
Cathy, I've had several bouts of what am I doing-itis--usually on the way to or at a writers' conference. Next time I feel it coming on I'm going to remember your tip. Thanks for the great advice, and good luck with the Professor. Sounds like a great read that will definitely be on my to-be-read pile!
ReplyDeleteHi Wendy
ReplyDeleteIsn't it easy to sign up for a conference and then have the reality check? But seriously, if it's a bunch of writers, we already have something in common and reader conferences are really relaxed.
Hope you enjoy The Professor. I'm a little partial but I love those characters!